PREGNANCY WEEK 37 – September 19, 2020
Can it be? Am I writing an update only a week after I have written my last update? Wow! Perhaps now that I’m at the very end of this pregnancy, I might find the time to sit down and write weekly updates for this final stretch. I seems as though things can change pretty quickly at this stage, week by week, and even day by day. Why don’t I just jump in and get some of those updates since last week rolling…..
So,the biggest update since last week is baby’s position. Let’s backtrack a bit and say this: around 28 weeks I had an ultrasound and baby was in breech presentation (butt down, head up). The midwife assured me that baby does not need to be head down for a while and still had plenty of time to move around. At my 30 week appointment, she felt for position and baby was still breech. Again, assured me it’s definitely not an issue at that point. I definitely remember, though, that by 30 weeks, both Winter and Chloe were already head-down and stayed that way for the remainder of their pregnancies. It was a nice peace of mind. At 32 weeks, they did another ultrasound and determined, yep, this baby is again, STILL BREECH. My midwife still was not concerned, but she suggested I start taking matters into my own hands to help encourage baby to flip. Her recommendations were:
1. See the chiropractor (webster technique).
2. Spinning babies techniques (i.e. inversions)
3. Dolphin pose/child’s pose yoga moves (anything to get my hips higher in the air)
That exact day, I walked out of the prenatal appointment and started taking care of business. First, I called my insurance directly to check out what my chiropractic benefits were. Then, after I cleared that I had coverage, I went ahead and called the chiropractor and scheduled a first-available appointment to come in right away. This chiropractor is the same doctor who treated me when I was pregnant with Chloe 5 years ago. I was not seeing him for a breech presentation, but rather, other pregnancy discomforts and pains. He was very successful in helping me, so I decided to return to him.
I also began researching Spinning Babies immediately and started doing inversions that very day. The main technique I have used is where you prop an ironing board up against the couch and then lie down on it for 20 minutes at a time, with your hips high on the board, head down on the floor. The recommendation is to perform these inversions for 20 minutes at a time, 3 times a day. I quickly realized that twice a day was my absolute max. It’s extremely uncomfortable, and also leave me with a raging headache when I get up after the 20 minutes from all of the blood rushing back to my head. Ugh! But, it’s for the baby!
For the next two weeks, I consistently did these ironing board inversions at least once a day for 20 minutes, if not twice. I saw the chiropractor 3 days a week for the first two weeks, and then 1-2 times a week after the initial two weeks. I also started using my exercise ball frequently at home as well as at the gym, varying from bouncing to hip rolls, etc. Lots of that.
Well, it seemed to be working, because at my 34 week visit, my midwife felt manually for position, and determined that baby was not quite head-down, but transverse with his head down low on my left hip and butt up high under my right ribcage. This was a huge success after all of the obsession and hard work I had put in those two weeks prior. It felt like a relief that he was making progress. She said I should stop doing inversions in case he would flip back the wrong way, but to still keep up with the chiropractor.
At 36 weeks, I went in to my appointment and felt very confident that he was head down by this point. I just FELT it. It was no doubt in my mind that he was either still transverse with his head lower, or head-down. I had an ultrasound, and was shocked as the sonographer announced, “well, baby is still breech.” WHAT? Are you kidding me? I was caught quite off guard and felt an immediate sense of let down. This was just unexpected and I was not sure what to think. It is not the end of the world, obviously, but just not ideal at that stage of pregnancy.
After my ultrasound, I sat down and discussed at length with the midwife what next steps will be. She said to resume Spinning Babies inversions. She also said to schedule my next appointment with the OB in the office who does the ECV. I scheduled an appointment with him for Monday morning. We will check baby’s position again and discuss all details ECV. The ECV will then have to be scheduled for the same week in hospital. You have to be fasted and ready for an emergency c-section on the day of the ECV in case things go wrong. It’s quite a whole process, and the ECV itself does not have a high success rate. But, I think it will be worth at least TRYING, to avoid a potential c-section. So, that’s on deck for early next week.
Also, another thing the midwife and I discussed quite threw me off. Completely out of left field. She asked me multiple questions about the length of time I pushed with each of my previous births, the size of the babies at birth, etc. Then, she suggested it would be on the table to have a possibility of a breech vaginal birth. My eyes about bugged out when she said those word. What?? I didn’t even know in this day and age that a breech vaginal birth was something that doctors or midwives would allow, let allow suggest as a possible recommendation. Most doctors will not even consider it! She was very excited about the idea and in favor of this option. To me, it left me with a lot to think about. I have never imagined the possibility of me give birth either of those ways: 1. c-section, OR 2. breech vaginal birth. Truly, I don’t want to do either!! But, after research and thought, I have decided that I would rather have a scheduled c-section than attempting a breech vaginal birth. In my mind, I there are just TOO MANY things that have to go just perfectly “right” in a breech birth, and I’d rather just not take that chance. I want my baby to be safe and healthy. As much as I really would love to avoid major surgery, I think I just care too much about my baby to risk delivering him breech. So: I will do the ECV, and if that works, great! If it does not work and he does not flip on his own accord….then I will schedule to go under the knife and safely have him born.
So, that’s the big update. I didn’t realize it would take so much writing to get all of that update written out….but there it is.
My age: 34
How far along: 37 weeks pregnant
How big is baby: the baby is the size of a head of winter melon, approximately 6.5-7 pounds and 19+ inches. At my ultrasound last week at 36 weeks +2 days pregnant, he was measuring approximately 6 lbs 3 oz. My prediction for birth weight for this guy: if we get to 40 weeks, he will be 8+ pounds, or if he comes 39 weeks, I bet he will be 7-7.5 bs.
Gender: Boy
Events of the past few weeks:
Last week I was finishing up the tail end of my lingering head cold. Something about being sick sure just makes you appreciate being healthy. I am so thankful that we knocked out that sickness BEFORE I have this baby. Had a kinda “normal” week this past week with kids in school full time. My brother and sister in law who recently moved to Colorado came over for dinner. The girls each had their dance classes, Winter takes Batons/Poms and Chloe takes Ballet/Tap combo class. We also went to Ikea to get a dresser figured out for baby’s nursery. The plan is to finally start putting together the nursery this weekend. And maybe wash some clothes and get things ready for baby. Also, I ordered the remainder of my items I wanted on Amazon from my baby registry. I only had created the registry so that I could get the 15% off completion discount. Packages should be showing up like crazy this weekend with all things baby. The main items I got were: carseat, new sheets, burp clothes, muslin swaddle blankets, postpartum belly binder/wrap, nursing tank tops, bottles, pacifiers, etc.
Symptoms:
I get a lot of pressure or “lightnight bolts” on my cervix. I very frequent say these words: “I feel like my water is going to break at any moment!” It feels like the baby is going to bust out of me. I also get pain in my upper right ribs, which I have now learned is his HEAD, sadly! My belly just feels huge. I cannot bend over very well and I definitely cannot really tie shoes or reach my feet. I get a little heart burn here and there, usually when I have an empty stomach. My appetite isn’t great. I just don’t feel like eating much.
Workout & Training Summary:
Took a whole week off from the gym because of my head/sinus cold. Now that I’m better, I got back in the gym to do light cardio and light upper body. Now that I’m 37 weeks, I am FINALLY in the clear to start working out again! I’m SO EXCITED to start lifting weights again! I want to reunite with the beloved barbell. It’s time!
How workouts are feeling:
Feeling to READY to workout for “real” again!
Nutrition, Protein & Calories:
My appetite just isn’t there. I’m eating randomly and not really eating meals.
How is my body changing:
Big huge basketball belly.
Sleep:
Sleeping is kinda bad. I have been waking up with insomnia.
Food cravings:
None.
Food aversions:
Just don’t feel like eating. Nothing sounds good.
Movement: Huge rolls, kicks, jabs. This baby is a mover.
Best Moment of the Week:
When I informed Winter and Chloe the update that baby is breech, Winter was so disappointed. She is so invested in getting this baby to flip. She suggested that maybe SHE could turn the baby herself, and proceeded to push on my belly and try to twist baby around.
What I’m looking forward to:
Working out again this week!
What I’m not enjoying/or not looking forward to:
The ECV. I had read that the procedure is really painful. I just hope it works.
What I miss:
Feeling light and quick on my feet.
Next appointment: Monday, Sept 21 @ 9:30 am with the OB to talk about scheduling the ECV to flip the baby.
Comparison of bumps from 37 weeks from my 3 pregnancies:
And here’s a little look back over the belly growth for the past 7 weeks: